Next weekend we are going away to BIL's family's holiday house.
It was arranged awhile ago, as a 'relaxing weekend'. Yesterday we got an invitation in the mail for their daughters '3 month birthday'.
Huh!?
Cute, I guess.
Are we supposed to give them a present???
Also, one thing that irks me, even though it probably shouldn't:
She wrote on the invitation: 'Meat will be provided'. And also that she can organise all the rest of the food if we all put in money, or we can bring each bring food and pool our items.
How much would everyone like to bet that if we all put in money, I would still have to go and buy something for myself, the vegetarian?
The only reason I say this is that I have noticed that every time we go to their house now, we go out for dinner. But when they come to our house, I cook something that usually has meat in it and something else for myself. But we always have the option of them having meat (wouldn't want to miss out for a single day now would we?!?!). I'm probably being petty but argh!
to meat or not to meat?
October 8th, 2009 at 07:57 pm
October 8th, 2009 at 08:49 pm 1255034962
We switch between vegetarian and non vegetarian as we have both groups in the family and friends. When we host and know vegetarians will be there we cook in there favor as if some one can't go a meal without meat well its not my problem.
Craig
October 9th, 2009 at 12:04 am 1255046665
I also learned (since I am a picky eater) to eat first or bring food if that option is available. WHY does everyone insist on covering EVERYTHING in cheese? I'm not allergic, I just don't like it.
I do think they would survive if you cooked a delicious vegetarian meal the next time they came over. I eat meat, but I would not be upset at all to go without.
October 9th, 2009 at 01:07 am 1255050476
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October 9th, 2009 at 02:21 am 1255054902
Anyway! I don't think you should have to make a meal with meat in it just for guests. My veggie friends don't do that for those who do eat meat and, that I know of, no one has gotten upset about it.
Can you talk to your BIL and make sure that a vegetarian option will be available if you do contribute money? If not, I guess the best option would be to bring a vegetarian dish yourself.
October 9th, 2009 at 06:09 am 1255068544
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October 9th, 2009 at 02:40 pm 1255099228
Maybe you could
make a vegie dish and say that that was your "share"